Your safety and access come first
We built this community so disabled singles can date with confidence. Here’s how we keep it safe, welcoming and usable for everyone.
How we protect our community
A community that gets it
A welcoming space of disabled singles and people who appreciate them — no need to explain yourself.
Easy reporting & blocking
Block or report anyone in a couple of taps, and reports are taken seriously.
Private by default
You choose what you share and who can see it. We never sell your personal data — full stop.
Simple tips for first dates
Online dating should be fun and safe. A few habits go a long way:
- Chat in the app firstGet to know someone through our messenger before sharing personal contact details.
- Meet in publicChoose an accessible, public place for a first meet-up and plan your transport in advance.
- Tell someone you trustLet a friend or family member know where you’ll be and when.
- Trust your instinctsIf something feels off, you never owe anyone an explanation. Report and block freely.
Our accessibility commitment
Accessibility isn’t a feature we bolt on at the end. It shapes every decision we make.
- Screen-reader friendlySemantic structure, descriptive labels and logical reading order throughout.
- Full keyboard navigationThese pages are designed to work without a mouse, with clear visible focus.
- High-contrast, readable textGenerous sizing and strong colour contrast, aiming to follow WCAG AA guidance.
- Respects reduced motionIf you prefer less movement, animations are switched off automatically.
- Clear, plain languageNo jargon, no clutter — just straightforward words and simple layouts.
- Always improvingWe welcome feedback from disabled members and act on it. Tell us how we can do better.
Online dating safety, in plain language
The one rule that matters most: never send money
Nearly every serious online-dating harm follows the same script, and knowing it is your best protection. Someone attentive appears, the connection accelerates fast, and then — always with a wrenching story — comes a request for money, gift cards, or "help with an investment". Sometimes it takes weeks; the good ones are patient. The answer never changes: no genuine romantic interest, anywhere, ever needs money from someone they have not met. Not for a flight to see you, not for a customs fee, not for a sick relative. The moment money is mentioned, the story is over — report the profile and let us deal with it.
Other flags worth trusting
Refusing a video call while professing deep feelings. Photographs that look like stock images or a catalogue. Claiming to be local but always, somehow, working abroad. Pushing to move the chat to WhatsApp or email immediately, away from the site's reporting tools. Asking probing questions about your finances, benefits or living situation early on. None of these alone proves anything; two together deserve your suspicion. Disabled daters are sometimes deliberately targeted by scammers who assume loneliness equals gullibility — proving them wrong is a community effort, and reporting even a "failed" attempt protects the next member.
Meeting for the first time
Public place, daytime if you can, your own transport there and back, and a friend who knows where you are and when to expect a check-in text. Keep first dates short by design — an hour's coffee with the option to extend beats a three-course dinner with no exit. If your disability means you rely on the other person for any part of the practical arrangements, keep that for later dates; for the first one, stay fully independent. And trust the instinct that says something is off. It is usually right, and it owes nobody an explanation.
What our accessibility commitment actually means
Every page carries an accessibility menu — the button in the corner — offering four text sizes, a high-contrast mode, and a reduced-motion setting, and your choices are remembered between visits. The site is built to work with screen readers and full keyboard navigation, images carry descriptive text, and colour contrast is checked rather than guessed. We will not claim perfection: accessibility is a practice, not a badge, and real members using real assistive technology find things audits miss. If something on this site fights your setup, telling us is genuinely useful — fixes get made because members point at the problem.
Common questions
How do I report or block someone?
Every member profile includes reporting and blocking tools inside the member area. Blocking is immediate and invisible to the other person; reports go to the platform's team for review. Report even attempts that failed — it protects other members.
Someone asked me for money. What now?
Stop replying, do not send anything, and report the profile straight away. If you have already sent money, contact your bank immediately — they deal with this more often than you would think — and in the UK you can report it to Action Fraud.
Does the site meet accessibility standards?
It is built against recognised accessibility principles — screen-reader support, keyboard navigation, contrast, text scaling — and improved continuously rather than certified once. Member reports of real-world problems drive fixes, so please send them.
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